Sometimes (when I don't have much else to think about, driving to a sale) I wonder what I could find that would make me happier than anything else. Jadite makes me pretty happy. So do Christmas ornaments. And sewing notions. But I think what makes me happiest of all is a box of sparkly Christmas things. (And I apologize right now for what will be an unseasonable onslaught of all things Christmas this week, but I can only show you what the sale gods deliver to me.)
By sparkly Christmas things I mean beaded picks and ornaments with a burst of tinsel on pipe cleaner stems and these great cardboard and foil candle holders that I want to do something really great with.
And all these lovely ornaments on stems.
You know, I am the last person in the world to get all weepy and sentimental at estate sales. I cannot stand it when people walk around and sigh and say, oh, it's so sad that it comes to this, an attic full of boxes and strangers looking through them. (These are never family members, who are entitled to say whatever comes into their mind. Usually the family members are well past their grief and are thinking how glad they'll be when all these boxes are gone.)
Anyway, I think all this hand-wringing is baloney. An estate sale is just stuff. I sure hope I mean more than the stuff I leave behind. And if somebody I've never met likes it and wants to buy it, all the better.
I do like it, though, when I feel as if I'd have liked the person whose estate sale I'm attending. And I felt like that at the sale I went to Friday. To the extent that when some other people in the attic started analyzing the late Aunt Jane, as the woman was known, I wanted to defend her. "Don't you dare call her a compulsive buyer! She was not a hoarder!" I wanted to tell them. "You didn't know her like I did!" (Which was, of course, not at all.) But I had to admire the spirit of someone who loved holidays as much as she did. Even if she did buy way, way, way more stuff (most of it, apparently, in the last 10 years or so) than pretty much anyone could ever use.
At some point, though, I did kind of wonder. Everything you're seeing here pretty much came out of one box. And to find it, I sorted through possibly 40 boxes of brand-new, untouched Christmas merchandise. (Not to mention the 20 boxes of brand-new Easter. And Halloween. And St. Patrick's Day.) She had collected enough electric window candles to light a high-rise. Box after box after box of stick-on bows. Bundles of holiday dishtowels. None of them ever used. Did she forget she had them? Did she think she'd need more?
I'll never know, and I'm not about to analyze someone I've never met. I'm glad she kept some of these old things around, because someone indeed did find them and was thrilled by them. And maybe the reason she kept buying ornaments and figurines at the dollar store was that she had some impulse to celebrate every holiday, and it made her happy.
So here's to you, Aunt Jane. Thanks for keeping this old stuff around. You had a beautiful house. And I bet nobody liked Christmas as much as you did. Well, hardly anybody.